Boyfriend gets annoyed when I don't have anal sex – what can I do?

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend and I have hardly had sex since our son was born ten months ago.

The main reason is that he only seems interested in anal sex.

We have had so many arguments over it because he keeps begging me to try.

But I really don’t like the idea of it and I’m afraid it will hurt me.

I’m 27 and he’s 28. We have only had normal sex once since our son arrived and he didn’t seem that interested. It took him ages to finish and the whole thing lacked passion.

Countless times he has stormed off because I refused to go along with his wishes. What can I do?

If I am not enough for him now, what future do we have as a family?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your boyfriend should not be pressuring you into trying something sexual you don’t want to do.

While some men and women enjoy anal sex, it is linked to damaging long-term effects.

While the tissues around the vagina are elastic, here they are less so.

Tearing and damage to the tissue in this area can increase the risk of infection and long-term physical damage.

Read my support pack How To Look After Your Relationship together to help him understand that a really strong relationship is built on emotional intimacy and trust.

I am also sending you the 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex support pack, which may give you both ideas on how to introduce other changes into your love life.

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